Why Women Smile!

Smiles are not the small and innocent things they appear to be. Many of us smile in order to show what's really on our minds. We smile so often and so promiscuously when we are angry, when we are tense , when we are communicating with children, most important when we are photographed, when we are interviewing for a job. A smile lightens the load, diffuses unpleasantness and also reduces nervous tension. Studies show women doctor smile more than their male counterparts and they are better liked by their patients.

I am not a perfect mother. I gave birth to three beautiful kids, raised them according to my on little experience of life. And I tried my best to make them good human beings. But one thing I have learnt during this process is that a mother needs immense patience to deal with her children. You need a smile when they are spilling eatables on the table, You need a smile when they are breaking your decoration pieces, and you need a smile when they are drawing on bedroom walls. if you show aggression on such occasions, you are likely to induce anger and feelings of resentment in your child.

Smiles are specially needed by a good woman. Evidently, a woman's happy. Willing attitude is something the world wants visibly demonstrated. Woe to the waitress, the personal assistant or receptionist, the flight attendant, or any woman in the line of public service whose smile is not needed to cheer up the public. Women's roles in films have historically been smiling ones.

I still remember an incident of my school days. A friend of mine named ambrein was pulled aside by my Urdu teacher after class and asked "What is wrong, dear" you sat there for the whole hour looking so said, "All I could figure" my friend told me "Was that I wasn't smiling".
To sum up my article, I would like to say if a woman's smile were truly her own, and expressed how she felt, rather than according to what someone else needed, she would smile more spontaneously, without ulterior, hidden motives.

By Mrs. Arjumand Jawad
 Created by Sami ullah Saleem

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